Keep the mood relaxed and fun — I had the advantage of being friends with my subject and being a woman myself put her at ease more than if I were a male — however even with those two advantages it was a somewhat never wracking experience for both of us. The first shots I took were quite bad and we quickly realized that we or I were not prepared. You have a girlfriend, wife, or someone who trusts you very closely, and that you know is beautiful. The results were quite confronting to my model. Trying a new form of foreplay is just like trying a new workout—you always feel a little silly navigating something for the first time. Cover Up — another lesson that we discovered over the morning that we shot was that sometimes less skin is more. It's easy to see how sending racy text messages can heat up a sex life, but not everyone takes advantage of the turn-on:
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We decided to take a break and I pulled out a few of my photography magazines and books where I knew there would be examples of some poses that we could aim for. Sections Ranks And More. This is especially true in the modern age where sharing is the way of things. Simple Poses — I wish I could show some of the shots we took by my friend would be horrified with that as they were shots just for her husband and her and not the masses here at DPS but the best shots were very very simple shots. Try Black and Whil e — at the start of our shoot we were shooting in color.